Replying to @J7mbo

@J7mbo Dealing with irrational conflicts is easy
for me, because I can identify them easily (lack of logical reasoning, use of
power language). Then I use learnings from Non Violent Communication Rosenberg
to figure out what the underlying needs are.

Sun, 24 Feb 2019 10:48:54 UTC

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Replying to @coderbyheart

@J7mbo In my experience a conflict like this can be
defused by focusing the discussion on what I need and how the other people can
help me. I turn their position from an opponent into a mentor / teacher /
provider. This changes their perspective and helps to move the discussion.