Replying to @gazebo_c

@gazebo_c I now understand that this is not easy
for me because I have a reservation against conflicts which stem from the way I
grew up. I have the very negative experience that conflicts were always
destructive and violent. I try to prevent myself and others from experiencing
this again.

Sat, 23 Feb 2019 18:29:08 UTC1

2 replies

Replying to @coderbyheart

@gazebo_c I have the feeling that most have this
bias against conflict and never learned (and I mean actually receive formal
training in school, and during higher education) on how to turn this into
something useful.

Replying to @coderbyheart

@gazebo_c Nobody wants people screaming at each
other at work (I have had this in teams) that's why we have so many "leave your
emotions at home" workplace. To protect us. But this only happens because the
screamers have no other way of dealing with conflict.